How do you justify not being able to be together, even though you miss each other?
It amazes me to see how sometimes when people get out of relationships, they miss each other a lot, but they just know they can't be together because they know it will not work out.
You don't talk to each other, you never see each other even though you miss each other, and remember the good times. You will avoid every possibility of getting to see each other, because you know it will make you weak, and you might just get into a vicious cycle again.
Life is a soap after all. There is some truth in all the dramas we watch. It's not easy understanding them till you actually go through something very intense, and then in a blink of an eye it's all over.
I am saying all this because I just realized how often these things happen to people. When I see my girl friends missing the good times they shared with a special guy, I can't help but wondering why two people can't be together when they know they will always care.
I guess it takes longer than I thought it does. It does not take a couple of months, but a lot of months to let everything be ok I guess (I am so not normal, I forget too soon..sigh.. that's a good thing I guess)
I hope these friends of mine are happy again (actually three of them.. it's like a break up season I guess). I wish they forget everything too.
2 comments:
I wonder about the same things ... you keep yourself apart from someone as though they're a stranger to you, and yet you love them with all your heart and miss them with all your being. Why? Why can't you be a part of their lives like you are meant to and vow to bring nothing but happiness and support to them? When a love so strong touches your life, why not fight for it? Why resign to "its just not meant to be"? Maybe it was not that you weren't right for each other, but bad timing? Could it be possible that the reason that it didn't work out was because you when you were needed to be there for them the most, you just didn't know how to be patient enough or you were too pre-occupied with other pressing matters? How would you ever know if you just let go forever?
I think people just dont wanna know anymore
Lives are busy, careers, priorities everything else matters more
love ki kahaniyan purani, no more rajas and ranis
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