Its not you, its me

I am sure you have heard this line above, like a million times especially if a guy is breaking up with you. 

I wonder how many times its true when I person says, nothing is wrong with you, I am the one who is messed up.

I think when people say that, they think they believe it, but the truth of the matter is, you were just not good enough. When people fall in love, or even like each other enough, there are ready to fight for it till there is absolutely no scope left. They do fight for it.

So girls, if a boy is letting you go, then its not him, it is you. I am not saying something is wrong with you, I am saying that he thinks something is wrong with you. And he will think that no matter how much you care or love. Because there is always one thing that he will find to complain about.

All I am saying or trying to say is dont let that happen to you. If someone does not want you, its not because something is wrong with you, its just because his wants are different. And then there is no point holding on to it, just let it go.

I am no lecturer or a philosopher, I just learn from looking around, and this is what I have learned. I have girl friends, whose boy friends would do anything to make them happy, and then I have those where the guy seems to just not care, and the end just seems closer every day.

Loving yourself is most important, cuz if you do that no one will ever hurt you, and you will always be loved by someone even more!!!!