Nice girls and nice boys

I have read so many times at so many places that nice girls and nice boys are always "the friend", they never make it any further because they are too nice to ask for what they want and then after all they are always there... since they are nice.

I don't really know many nice boys, but I know the kind. I know how girls make them run around them, and cry to them, and make them wait in line for them and make them do all that makes the girl in question a heartless person, but actually.. really.. its not entirely the girl's fault.

Niceness is taken as a sign of weakness, people try to use it, and that too very unintentionally. Just the fact that the nice person is the way he or she is, the opposite sex tends to go with the flow and just so called 'use' them.

I am nice girl, and I know I am, and I feel it. I don't feel being used, or being walked over, but I think whoever I have liked a lot in the past, has told me .. "You are my really good friend.. actually one of best friends." Its amazing how I am such a friend material, well at least that is one zone I know I fit perfectly in :)

I think being a good friend is not that bad after all. I mean if the person does not see enough in you to have more, its better to leave it at friendship whether you are a nice boy or a nice girl. Being nasty is easy, oh so easy, but being nice is not. So I think nice people should actually take pride in themselves, and not be sad about how they are always in the friends zone. So what if you are, at least that ways you make so many friends you you know are going to be there for you ...

Things work a little differently with nice boys though, they tend to get over used since girls can throw tantrums like crazy (I admit we can be beyond control). So nice boys .. I think you need to watch out for yourselves more than the nice girls. 

Anyways.. nice not nice..getting someone genuine to be with is hard.. probably one of the hardest things to achieve in today's day and age.

I wish I get there :D