Letter to my readers

Dear Readers,

I know this letter will probably get me a lot of hate, but I need to say this.

A lot of my blogging is just a venting space. I do it here, because I would rather blog about it to random people than bore my close friends with it.

However I know some of my close friends do read it. And when they read some things, they assume other things, which probably is my fault because I am so vague.

And when they assume, they tell my other close friends about it, and hence starts a chain of Japanese whisper, where one thing turns in to other.

Again, I know people care and they will try and help me out if I sound extremely upset or just stupid or in distress or all those kinds of things. But the thing is I am usually not taking a dig at anyone at all. When I say boy friend, best friend, friend, coworker and all those things, a lot of time they are just made up scenarios to get my point across.

I do not have issues with everyone in my life. I love the people in my life, and inevitably there are certain times when we fight or have miscommunication and I mention my state of mind, and that is when I vent here.

Please do not go tell someone, “I think she meant you,” because trust me you don’t know. All it does is create a chain of explanations from me. And I do not want to be answerable to anyone for what I do here. I never take names. I usually keep things vague, at least I try to. If you sometimes think something is really bothering me, ask me, don’t bother people with it, they start thinking I am just bitching about them publicly.Because honestly, I never mean to hurt anyone.

And may be I have in the past. May be I have said somethings which are bothersome and some people close to me take it personally, and for that I am truly apologetic.

I blog because it calms me down. I blog when I need to find a way to distract myself. I blog when I think someone out there will get what I am saying. I blog making hypothetical situations. I blog for expression, not for vengeance.

So all that being said, can you please tell me yourself if something offended you, or you think I was talking about someone in particular. Because trust me, I know you care, you are curious, but sometimes you mess things up for me. Even if I am talking about someone, may be I should be the one clearing things with them, instead of you making them believe it’s them.

Lastly, even here I am not talking about anyone in particular. Because I have no one particular in my mind. I don’t at all. I just know there are some people who do this, mostly out of concern, but even if their intention is right, their execution isn’t.

I hope I did not make anyone mad by saying all this. I love blogging, and I just don’t want to be scared to write anything. This is one place I don’t have to care, and I would hate it if it were otherwise.

Thank you for reading!!!

Love,

Me