Where to draw the line

We as Indians are collective people. Before making any decisions we take into account a lot things. We like to help people which is sometimes a good level of interference. And I guess we sometimes don’t know where to draw the line.

It is important to know where to stop. Yes you are amazing friends with the person and you want to tell them what to do, and advice them on things, but you simply cant dictate things to them. And sometimes there is no right or wrong. Just because someone is more vocal about their feelings does not mean he or she is suffering more, and the other one is at fault.

As a third person we can never figure out things to the T. We can be very collective in nature, but where we live now, the culture we draw from now, makes us independent. We can not behave like your business is my business. Because we don’t live in that world anymore. Even if mean good, we can never just say what we want you to do, we just can’t!

I like to speak my mind, and tell someone on their face if they are messing up, but I guess there is a line I don't cross. I know how much can peak in, and how much I can’t…

Oh well, I wish things did not always have to get all this difficult and people understood people and some people just understood how to deal with the grey…

(Btw, i am sick so a 100 mistakes in this post can not be taken against me…)