The new season of Bachelor has started, and so far my favorite is Ali Fedowtowsky. She seems funny, pretty and intelligent. Jake seems to like her (not that he has not kissed every other girl already) and she makes sense.
On her one on one date with Jake she said she has a weird pattern of dating. Every guy she has dated has the name starting with ‘J’. Josh, Joe, Jared and now of course Jake. Clearly all of the previous ones ended that’s why she is on the show (again, unless she is doing a Wes) so the pattern isn’t impressive.
The point though is I see where is she coming from with the whole pattern story. When I parted my ways with the last boy friend, I knew exactly which pattern I should not follow for the sake of having a lasting relationship. But the thing is, the pattern follows you and sadly, even after being determined to change it, you can not do much about it.
I have tried hard changing my pattern. I did not want to date or even like a Jake after Josh, Joe and Jared but every time I did see a Jake, the fact that he was a Jake with a ‘J’ did not strike me till I already liked him some way or the other.
You get what I am saying? (I hope you are, the above paragraph needs to be deciphered)
And now my belief that there is a pattern is even stronger. The pattern does not work, but it exists. Or may be I just happen to know way too many people having the same starting letter in their name.
Sigh!
Anyhoo…
Here is a glimpse of Ali…
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