If a girl wants to be single for a while (by which I mean 2-3 years), what is wrong in that? Most of my guy friends keep on saying, “You need to date someone. Just be with someone. You have been single for too long.”
I don’t understand why I need to do that? I chose to be myself, and I actually love it. At least for now I do. I never stop myself from meeting new guys, or talking to them, but if I dont get attracted to anyone enough to get in a relationship with them, that is not my fault.
He: What’s wrong with that guy? He likes you
Me: But I dont
He: Why? Try dating him
Me: But I dont feel anything for him
He: TRY!!!
Me: Try and do what? Why the hell should I lead someone on
He: Girls!!!
It’s not about being a girl. It is just about choosing to be happy. And not to sound sad or anything, but after what I have seen some guys are capable of, or just being in love and getting hurt to the point which I did not even know existed, i don't really believe in love.
(I mean there is love, just not for me)
So when I do not believe in something, it is hard to pursue it. May be that will change (even though I do not want it to EVER), but for now I am singe and loving it :)
2 comments:
hey geets
you're totally right
you need to feel attraction for someone, there's no point otherwise
how attractions works for men and for women...it's fascinating
cos it's so straightforward for men, most times if you see a pretty girl, then you're attracted to her, period! :) (at least until you realise she's a douchebag or shallow or something, but you'll still be 'physically' attracted to her!)
damn you testosterone! ;D
but for women, there's a whole lot more going on, sooooo many more factors that decide whether or not you find a guy attractive...
it's stuff i really wish i knew a year ago ;)
but hey, better late than never! :D
oh, and yeh i know what you mean about the love thing
i know for me, i'm more guarded this time round, not losing the run of myself like before, not doing the 'truly madly deeply' thing anymore ;)
don't get me wrong, that kind of love is wonderful and life affirming, but the fall is so much greater if things go wrong...
I know!!! Looks kinda do it for men, dont they.. hehe.. at least initially thats the only thing that matters
and we women.. sigh.. we wear our heart on our sleeves more often than not
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