Epiphany 2

“तुम्हे खोने का दर्द इतना है, की और कोई दर्द महसूस ही नहीं होता |”

The above line simply means the pain of losing you is so much, that I can’t feel any other pain. I heard it on a super cheesy romantic comedy tv show that airs in India, and no matter how lame it may sound to the majority of population, it struck a cord with me.

I really wonder if that can happen? When you lose someone, every other pain seems nothing in front of it, or just brings back the pain of losing someone in abundance.

Since I make most of my judgments based on whether I can go through that sort of emotion or not, I would say it can happen. I don’t see much of genuine love around. Most people are just worried about having a ‘someone’ in their lives because they don’t want to be lonely. It’s seldom about the ‘one’. But then again, may be I expecting too much. We do live in a real world after all.

Most people get over losing people, as they should, unless of course their egos come in the way, which usually happen to boys when they are dumped. They go on an endless whine spree and call the girl all sorts of names, because they were dumped. Then my question is, but if you loved her so much, as you claim, why are you wishing bad things for her? Then again, we are human after all, ‘Me’ first is a big policy that we follow.

Basically, I do believe the pain can be so much that it can define your life. But I also believe that it can be hidden, not whined about, kept safe somewhere in your heart, allowed to come out when the times are worst and every other painful thing takes you back to the time when you lost that someone.

But I also know just because I believe that, doesn’t mean other people too. In today’s world, it’s hard to find people who genuinely care about you, leave alone people who fall for you like there is no tomorrow. So the pain spares most people (egos kept aside), and they move on. Which should be a good thing I suppose.

As they all say ‘One goes, the other comes’

Only very rarely, “The one goes, and no one can come’