What is cheating?

People stress so much on cheating on your partner when you actually go ahead and sleep with someone else or maintain any kind of physical relations with them. A lot of times when people do that, they might not even feel for the other person, and just get pleasure out of the physical intimacy.

But what about emotional cheating? Is that not bad as well? Is it not worse to fall for someone else while you are with someone, no matter whether you do something with them or not?

For me personally, emotional cheating is equally bad. I can never stand someone I love liking/loving someone else. That just marks the end of my commitment towards them. If the man I love can like someone else while he is with me, then definitely, there can never ever be a come back from that, and I can not accept it in any way.

Honestly, I can be there for him no matter what he does to me if I trust him and have faith in what we have, but the moment there is someone else. I am just simply done. It's like an eye opener, it's like a call to my self-respect, it's iterating that I am just not good enough.

(omg! self-realizations)

I give way too much of myself to the men I love, and I think they start thinking I need them, and I am dependent. What they don't get is, that's just the way I am, and if I can fall so hard, I can fall out when I really want to, even if I have to cry my eyes out every night. I am emotional, but I am strong enough to let it go when I clearly know there is someone else in the picture (the biggest no no in the books for me).

And I dont know what's wrong with boys. Most of them just say they want to be friends after the break up, just because they want to be guilt free, even though after begging to stay friends, they do not really care much.

Boysss.. if you have a different girl, then there is absolutely no need to stay friends. Trust me. You wont miss anything, you chose that, so don't make guilt talks for god's sake. Go on, and let your ex go on.

(I am no relationship expert btw!!)

Man... I think I have been single way too long to advice on relationships, but you know, where I live freedom of speech works :D

(Even if what I say sounds crappy)

BTW.. Spring is being weird. No sun since 2 days :(

There goes my mood... sigh