Fight for it

I think I have said this before in one of my earlier posts but I want to talk about it once more.

People are so self obsessed and worry about looking bad, that they let go of people they could have fought for. When you love someone whether a friend or a lover, then you have to fight for it especially when you see them slipping away because of any reason.

(And no fighting doesn't mean crying your eyes out and begging the other person, and losing all self respect)

People make mistakes, and the ones you love sometimes get lost. Then its your job to fight for them. It will hurt, it has to. You will see resistance and you will hear some things that you never wanted to hear, but then you love that person, so fight for it till you know you have done enough. You will know, trust me you will.

If that person goes away, then you will be hurt and feel like you have lost so much while fighting, but one thing you will achieve is peace. Peace from the fact that you know you did what you could, you stood there and waited as much as you could, you gave your everything, and you tried your best and there is nothing more you could have done.

Fight for your friend. Fight for your friendship, especially when you did something wrong. If you are truly guilty, and feel that you have to fix what you have done then fight for that friend. Fight till you can show that you are guilty, and never will do it again. Do what you can. Because fighting for something, and not just watch it go by makes you guilt free. It makes you powerful. It makes you value friendships and people in your life. It will never leave you alone.

So fight for your lover who is confused, fight for your friend who you hurt, fight for that love that you know will make you lead that happy life.