The irony of the world is when you really really really want someone to be in love with you it does not happen. And when you really don’t want someone to be in love with you, it happens.
Girls like me (yes like me) want to be loved when in a relationship. We do not do, “oh this is just casual” stuff. (Sucks). So obviously we have been through the times when it has hurt like anything when that does not happen and the boy in question believes in, “oh this is just casual” stuff.
So when someone says, “I love you” and we dont feel the same, we feel guilty. Real guilty. Because we know how much it hurts. And we wish we could be in love with that person, but obviously that does not happen.
Why can’t things just be simpler?? May be we should just give it a shot and date them and see how it goes. But then again, girls like me wont get out of it because
- we dont cheat (i mean most of us dont)
- we feel way too guilty
- we’ll make it work and be there
but we will not be in love with the guy. That’s unfair to him too.
but again, may be we should go for it, cuz as they all say, “Be with someone who loves you, not someone who you love.”
(My brain works over time. Especially after midnight.)
2 comments:
i don't agree with whoever said:
“Be with someone who loves you, not someone who you love.”
i mean, sure you can be good friends with someone like that, but love?
i don't think so
it's like you said, you're being unfair to both yourself and ultimately to the other person too (if you be with someone you don't really love)
it can be hard to trust that you will meet another miss right or mr. right but they are out there! :)
I am not sure about the out there part...
but I think that line just means, you'll be appreciated more that way!
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