Think hard… its really about those people

When I look around I see happy faces, sad faces, faces with questions, and some with anticipation. I look around and I try to make sense of everything that happens everyday. People lie, people stand up for you, people leave, its people around you that shape your lives.

As we grow up we are asked to be ambitious, independent, wise and honest. In the midst of everything we see around us we manipulate our beliefs. We make our own right and our own wrong. We create a journey of our own where we learn from people. We learn that honesty is not what they always want, we learn that they may be independent, but their feelings are not.

There are some people you chose to be with. They define your happiness and your sadness. They influence you in ways you did not even know existed. They create your paths, and sometimes alter them. Some people say that they do not need anyone, they make and break relationships easily, but they are just lying.  Even if they don’t know that.

You hide things, because you do not want to lose those people. Some day if it comes out, you lose them, and sometimes you pretend. Everything you do is because of the people you chose.

If I tell you my story word to word and you knew all my history, will you go along with me. May be not, so may be I should hide some stuff, and just move along.

That's the line you work on. Because you know you hide, to be with those people.

So everyone who thinks its about themselves. Think again. It is in your mind, but in the end its about the people. They make you grow up, and learn so much more than you ever imagined.