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Oct 28, 2009

That weird sensation

Pehli baar mohabbat ki hai.. aakhri baar mohabbat ki hai

Sigh! Is that not the feeling every time you go crazy about a person. You feel like you have never felt like that before, and this might just be it till of course it is not.

The moment you start liking someone and spending time with them, there is this weird feeling you get where you don’t know where this is going. You still do it, because as I said you don’t know where this is going

That stage is the most happy stage of any relationship. There is nothing to expect, there are no fights, there are no complexities. This is when everything seems perfect, and going your way. The problems start when you start wanting more…

Sometimes spending too much with a person makes him or her grow on you, and the habit seems like something more. It is very hard to differentiate between a habit and a want. I wonder whether anyone really possesses that skill.

But all I know that feeling of just getting to know someone and hoping for nothing more is kinda miraculous. May be the best ever… because your mind doesn not work over time.. Sigh.. some feeling!

2 comments:

Shekhar said...

I would say a habit is something which you would do more on a routine basis, but the want would be the desire and craving for something which you may/may not have in the true sense of the term. Habits can be satisfied, wants can never be...the more you have, the more you want..

When it comes to relationships, I think its different though..I would go ahead and agree with you in that matter..thats only for a translational time...but over a period, you figure that out..:)

NicelyStupid said...

Debu my friend.... figuring out is done and over with

Now is the time to not figure out and just breathe ...sigh