Flipping flopping

I am girl. I like boys. So I can only give my theory on how boys act when in some sort of relationship with a girl (Friendship/dating/married/etc etc.).

When men make women cry all the woman wants is to be made to feel better. Have them follow up on how they are feeling. Made to be feel they are cared for (not just telling). Woman are easy that way. You show them you care, and they calm down.

And the problem arises when women are taken for granted. When that happens, their tears, their being upset, their feelings don’t seem to matter much to men, and that’s when the woman in question should know something is wrong. Something in the relationship is unbalanced. Somewhere they are not cared for as much as they are told.

Some men like to flip flop. Their mood swings are worse than any woman’s. They would be the most affectionate one day, and something would set them off and you wouldn’t see them again. Woman know that for a while a now, but when the man matters somewhat, they deal with it. But this is the time when they should know he isn’t sure about them. Or anything there is in between.

So when men are flipping and flopping and not really following what they say then I think its time you know, “He is just not into you.” Be as a friend or anything else.